Unspoken Conversations are the topics that are often swept under the carpet, whispered amongst the closest of friends and bitched about by many. I want to create awareness about difficult things that people face in life; grief, mental health, money, illnesses, family troubles, relationship difficulties and putting yourself first. I want to tell the truth about things that really matter.

Showing posts with label Taking charge of your career. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Taking charge of your career. Show all posts

Monday, 12 November 2012

Too Much Pressure?

Via



What is one of the first things that we ask people when we first meet them?

Yup, what do you do for a living?

If I said a doctor, what images, stereotypes and assumptions would you make about my life and the person that I am?

How about if I told you that I cleaned skid marks off of a toilet bowl?

I struggle with how much emphasis and pressure is placed on your career. I also struggle with how people think that in order to be successful, you must climb the corporate ladder and be rolling in it.


Via

As many of you know, my partner and I are moving back to where we were bought up soon.

Guess what the 2 most common questions are?

What are you going to do for a job? And why would you want to give up a permanent position in a great job to move back to the country?

Yup, career related.

The answer? Because there's more to life then climbing the corporate ladder and rolling in dosh for me.

I soon realised that bigger pay cheques usually come with more responsibility and more responsibility means more stress. And for me, a natural stress head and perfectionist, using my energy on work related stress is simply not worth the additional moolah.


Via

So I decided that I would prefer to get paid less, in order to have more energy left for my partner, family and happiness.

Of course, a slower pace of life, fresh air, rainwater and deserted beaches were definitely up there with swaying my decision.

Does that make me unsuccessful in society's eyes?

It then really made me think about other peoples situations and how they view their "career". 

Is a toilet cleaner any happier than a doctor?

If a girls life ambition is to raise a family - how would society react? I mean, isn't it one of the toughest jobs out there? What other job is 24/7?

No wonder at 17 or 18 when we're asked to make decisions about our career we're often scared into inaction, delaying big choices with gap years and moving out of home until we're older.

I am often left wondering whether there is more to life then full time work? Will I ever not be exhausted?

I guess I now realise why people quit their jobs and go traveling, or leave permanent jobs to go part time, or leave jobs to volunteer - because they get to a point where no amount of money that they earn will make them genuinely happy, and they end up finding fulfilment and happiness elsewhere.

I remember that one of the teachers at school had a poster that said that on average, we have 7 career changes in our life.

Is that because people are searching for fulfillment?

When do we start weighing up happiness versus money? To me, you can not place a sum on your happiness.

Do you struggle with these things or am I the only one?

Look after yourself and those around you,

Kirsty xxxx

Monday, 17 September 2012

Teachers: Overpaid or Under Appreciated?


Via



Teachers have it so easy - right? While all of the rest of us slave our guts out for 46 weeks of the year, teachers babysit while enjoying roughly 10 weeks of holidays. Geez - wished I had their job.

Or would I?

Would I really want to be handed a piece of paper with a list of 30 children's names at the start of the year and told to teach them the National Curriculum with no real further instructions than that?

Would I really want to scan my eyes down the list of names knowing that 5 of those students spoke English as a second language, 10 had severe learning difficulties, 3 had Autism and are very bright but lack social skills, 2 are in a Year 3 class but one can do Year 7 maths and the other can do Year 7 science and the remaining 10 children are average kids who plod along with a little help now and then?

How on earth am I meant to extend the gifted children in the classroom where I am also trying to teach students simple English, reading, writing and comprehension skills, while including autistic kids who are only fascinated by one particular topic and who require one on one support while not disadvantaging the average kids because I'm spending time with those with learning difficulties and there's only one of me?

On top of that, half of the children in my class are from divorced families and spend alternate weeks with their parents. Many are ratty for the first couple of days after the transition. Not to mention two of the boys who I've been warned are mischief makers and they bounce off of each other, and are known for running away and swearing if they don't get there own way.

Holy Molly - and this is just what I've been told by the principal when I am given my class at the start of the year.

Via

But oh well, at least I get to work from 9-3 instead of 9-5 right?

So I just roll out of bed at 6 and walk into a classroom at 9 and start the day with sleeping logs? Haha yeah, that will keep the kids quiet, then I'll actually be able to wake up. I'll leave them lying still and quiet while I go and grab a coffee and duck out for a whiz.

Could you imagine what I'd face when I returned?

I think they'd be a couple kids murdered, some doing handstands, others painting the walls, kids on facebook taking pictures of their bits, kids spitting in my coffee, a couple doing a runner and others sticking kick me stickers on some poor suckers back.

Could you imagine what it's like to engage 30 ratty children in the morning when all they want to do is play, or Facebook, or hang out at the mall, or go and do an apprenticeship already?

Do you realise just how much time goes in to planning, marking, searching for new ideas, photocopying, borrowing books, buying props and materials and so much more before even stepping foot into the classroom?

Now, I'm not a teacher, but could you imagine the exhaustion that you'd feel after all of that, and then having to attend staff meetings, run sports day, umpire the school basketball team, provide one on one tutoring, write reports outside of classroom time, face partner teacher interviews and extend your skills through professional development?

Via
I understand why teachers can drink people under the table...or have hip flasks in their desk :p Alcohol = sanity.

Don't get me wrong, the people who I know that are teachers LOVE their jobs. They are passionate about making a difference in the lives of children, they are life learners, they love to be challenged and they reveal in the reward of helping a child to read, or write a report, or speak a new language or discover a passion in a topic, but it's darn hard work.

Just let me tell you, if a term had 12 weeks then your kids would be dead...or worse still, teachers would go on strike and you'd have your kids home full time all of the time...garrrr!!!!

I think one of the most horrible things that teachers face is the criticism by the media. We know that many people believe what they read, without questioning it. Is it fair to portray teachers as people who get way too many holidays? I think it's disgusting that people are toying with the idea to pay teachers based on the outcome of students. How on earth do you monitor that? It's like asking someone what it is to be successful? Success for one school could be far different to success from another school. Take for example a private school with Year 12 students would be concentrating on students receiving high university entrance scores and gaining a place in their first preference whereas a low socio-economic school might base success on the retention rates of their Year 12 students and how many pass.

Is this a reflection on the quality of teachers or the quality of the students and their life outside of school?

I say a BIG STUFF THAT. I'll keep my 9 to 5 job with coffee breaks, a full lunch hour, the ability to daydream and procrastinate, the flexible work hours, being able to duck out for appointments, not being faced by scrutiny in the media and being able to switch off when the doors are closed and to not have to take work home with me.

If we pay people according to their responsibility then what's more important then educating our precious little cherubs?

And what price can you place on an education?

Are teachers overpaid or under appreciated?

Via

I'll let you decide.

Would you want their job?

Look after yourself and those around you,
Kirsty xxx

Thursday, 23 August 2012

A HUGE HUGE thankyou to my readers!

This beaming smile is because of you....and a 1 litre jug of champers!



Today I just want to take a moment to stop and really appreciate each and every one of you who takes the time to read my blog.

I know life is busy. I know that we’re always stretching ourselves thin to meet the demands of work, and kids and friends and family, and our relationship with our partner and updating our Facebook statuses and Tweeting about picking our noses and just trying to keep our sanity.

So thank you for spending a couple of moments every day/week/month to stop by my blog and to read about my thoughts and feelings towards topics that I am SO passionate about.

I started my blog just over 2 months ago not knowing where it was going to take me, whether people would be interested in hearing what I had to say, or whether I’d even enjoy doing it.

I have since had close to 9,000 views.

I am SO pleased to say that I have found my niche....now I just need to work out how to get paid for it hahaha.

But seriously, the other night when I was reading my blog out to my partner, I realised that even if I never get paid $$$ to write, then it really doesn’t bother me. I am reaping the reward of helping others to accept, deal with and move on from things that have happened in their life, I am giving people the opportunity to speak out loud about difficult things that they have faced in life to try and help other people and so that other people know that they are NOT alone, and if anything, I am doing something for myself. For me.

You, have given me the confidence to delve deeper into my Depression then I ever thought that I would and it’s helping me to move past Depression so that it doesn’t define me.

You have given me the courage to continue writing.

To be honest, there's been three moments that stand out for me since I have written my blog. One is when my Dad texted me saying how proud of me he was. Coming from a man who never said I love you or who never said those precious words when I was growing up made me cry. I am making my Dad proud.

The second was the other night. I got home from work and my partner said that he had a surprise for me. Usually his surprises are things like snail bait for my garden, but I still got excited. When he whipped out a box I almost did a little bit of wee in my pants. OMG! I opened it to reveal a i-pad type thing except it's not an i-pad as a symbol of how proud he is of me for writing my blog. He wanted me to be able to carry it around so that I can write any time that I get an idea...how sweet! I cried!

Super LUCKY!

The third would be when my story, Depression: the Silent Killer appeared on the front page of the ABC Open website which lead to a live interview on the ABC radio station. Wow. Just wow. I can not believe where my blog is taking me and that I am being given the opportunity to share my story to such a large audience. I really hope that it is helping someone out there in some way! To check it out, click here.




Every time I log in and see the page views increase, every time I see that someone has liked my post on Facebook or signed up to be a Follower and everytime someone comments on my blog, I have a beaming smile on my face. It truly means so much to me.

I always knew that I wanted to teach. I guess that’s why I studied to be a high school teacher for 3 ½ years and then realised that it wasn’t quite right for me. Now I have discovered a new way to create awareness and hopefully encourage people to be more critical of what they read, see and hear and to either question their beliefs or secure them through my blog.

You guys are helping to make me feel like the luckiest girl alive.

I am SO happy. And trust me, if you have been following my blog you’d know that after hitting rock bottom with Depression from April-September 2011, that that means the WORLD to not only me, but those closest to me.

I’m happy, I’m healthy and I’m writing and I LOVE IT!

And an even cheekier smile with chocolate in my mouth!


So thank you.

I hope that you are getting as much from my posts as I am writing them!

Look after yourself and those around you,

Kirsty xxx

Sunday, 12 August 2012

Could you be a childcare worker?



Tegan with one of the children that she used to care for.



Today I welcome my little sister Tegan to the world of blogging. My "little" sister is not so little anymore. She's 22, is about to get married (I have to add that because I'm just SO excited), she's completed her Diploma in Childrens Services at SUNRASIA INSTITUTE OF TAFE after studying for 2 years and is now a Team Leader at a child care centre.

I am constantly amazed to hear the expectations and amount of time and effort that child care workers place into creating a warm and fun learning environment which fosters the needs of children from all different cultural backgrounds including children with additional needs. 

Having worked at an Out Of School Hours Care facility during university, I know just how demanding and tiring entertaining children can be.

I take my hat off to child care workers and I honestly believe that they deserve to be paid more. After all, they look after our future generations at an age where they are like little sponges ready to learn! 

Would you want their job? 

Ps - Teegs refers to Child Care Workers as 'educators' in this blog :) I guess that is the technical term for them - and rightly so!

 
There is no job more important than yours,
no job anywhere else in the land.
You are the keepers of the future:
you hold the smallest of hands.
Into your care you are trusted
to nurture and care for the young,
and for all of your everyday heroics,
your talents and skills go unsung.
You wipe tears from the eyes of the injured.
You rock babies brand new in your arms.
You encourage the shy and unsure child.
You make sure they are safe from all harm.
You foster the bonds of friendships,
letting no child go away mad.
You respect and you Honor their emotions.
You give hugs to each child when they're sad.
You have more impact than does a professor,
a child's mind is molded by four;
so whatever you lay on the table
is whatever that child will explore.
Give each child the tools for adventure,
let them be artists and writers and more;
let them fly in the wind and dance on the stars
and build castles of sand on the shore.
It is true that you don't make much money
and you don't get a whole lot of praise,
but when one small child says, "I love you,"
you're reminded of how this job pays.

What do you think are the most important roles and responsibilities of a child care worker?

 
On a daily basis, educators interact and communicate with parents on arrival and departures. Child care staff administer medication to children in need, open our arms up to them when they are sad, comfort them when they feel ill, apply first aid when they have a boo boo and help to dress them when they are in need of support. 

As Educators, we provide opportunities and experiences for the children to explore, discover, experiment, create, communicate, imagine, pretend, make and build bonds with their peers and educators to further their development and emerge their skills. Children learn best through play.              

Each month, our centre comes together after closing hours, for trainings, team meetings, room meetings and Team Leader meetings (just the team leaders, director & assistant director). We are also encouraged to attend trainings on Saturdays from time to time.
 
As Educators; our job is to support, encourage & assist children to the best of our knowledge & abilities to provide high quality care.


Tegan's story - a day in the life of a child care worker.


I walk into the Toddler’s room & greet all the educators & children a good morning. I put my belongings away & check the role list to count how many children we have at that minute, that all the children there have been signed in & how many we are expecting for the morning session and then the afternoon. I check the toddler communication diary to see if there are any messages to be passed on. I then scan the program on the wall to see if there are any children whom need observing or implementing and evaluating for the day ahead.

We have a daily roster for staff. This includes: preparing morning tea, setting up the beds for sleep time, preparing lunch, cleaning the bathroom, disinfecting the toys, preparing afternoon tea, attending the sleep room and completing the daily journal. It doesn’t always go to plan, although it is a great guideline to make sure the workload is shared around fairly and completed.  

We have a 'daily routine' that is used as a guide and is flexible to meet the needs of all children. We carry out nappy changes every 2 hours, (9am, 11am, 1pm, 3pm, 5pm)  offering each child the choice to sit on the potty/toilet, although if a child soils their nappy in-between the 2 hours, we change it instantly.

Educators remind the toilet trained/training children to go more frequently to avoid accidents and build their confidence in conquering toilet training. 

Morning tea is aimed at 10.00 am. We have group times before each meal time and then each child is encouraged and supported to wash their own hands. Morning tea consists of a variety of local fruit provided by the centre and a glass of milk by choice. 

Lunch is aimed at 11.30am. Our centre is a lunch box service which means that parents need to provide lunch and afternoon tea for their children. 

Sleep/rest time is in between 12 and 3, where each child who needs a sleep is provided a bed, their comforters and a bottle if needed. For the children whom do not require a sleep, Educators provide an environment full of experiences for the children to explore or they go play in the outdoor environment if the weather is suitable. 

Afternoon tea is aimed at 3pm.

 Throughout the day, Educators carry out chores such as monitoring the washing, cleaning, mopping, dishes etc to enable the centre to maintain a clean and healthy environment.


Two of Tegan's best friends that she met through TAFE when studying to be a child care worker.
How many childcare staff  are required to look after children?
 
The educator to child ratio is 1:8 in the toddler's room and we are fortunate that a majority of educators are qualified. With the new government legislation and licensing, changes by the 1st of January 2016, the child to educator ratio will be 1:5. At my centre, management aim to have a lower ratio than required.

We also have a child with Phelan Mcdermid Syndrome (PMS) whom is supported with 1:1 care 8 hours of the day.

Each room’s Team Leader has the responsibility to provide a program fortnightly. Three hours a week of 'non contact time' is provided for the Team Leader to create this program. The Toddler’s program consists of planning for the whole room as well as individual children. 

I program for roughly 50 toddlers. 

We have 3 rooms in our childcare centre. The Nursery room has children between the ages of 6 weeks and 2 years, the Toddlers room has children between the ages of 2 and 3 years and the Kindy looks after children between 3 and 5 (until the child is ready for school).
 
As soon as the children turn 2 they are in the Toddlers room and as soon as they turn 3 they are in the Kindy room.



 What goes on behind the scenes of a childcare centre?

Child Care Centres are required to plan and follow a curriculum just like school teachers.

The program for Child Care Centres is guided by "Belonging, Being and Becoming Early Years Learning Framework" (EYLF). 

“From the beginning of 2010 EYLF became the official early childhood curriculum framework for South Australia. The EYLF describes the principles, practices and outcomes essential to support and enhance young children's learning from birth to five years of age, as well as their transition to school.” (http://www.earlyyears.sa.edu.au/pages/EYLF/eylf_home/?reFlag=1

Our centre opens at 7.45 am and closes at 6pm from Monday to Friday. We offer all day sessions, morning sessions from 7.45am until 1pm and afternoon sessions from 1pm until 6pm. I would estimate that 30% of toddler children come half days and 70% of children come for a full day.

How do child care centres impact on children's lives?

The first 5 years of a child’s life are the most crucial. Instead of me trying to explain it; here is a great website I found that says it all http://www.factsforlifeglobal.org/03/


What qualifications do you need to be a childcare worker and how did you become one?

Once I completed year 12 in 2007 I chose to have a year off and work. I then moved to Adelaide in 2009 where I enrolled in my Diploma of Children Services at TAFESA. It's a 2 year course. I struggled to get along with one of my facilitators, who made my studies near impossible to complete.  I also experienced a very appalling practical experience at a centre I went to. I decided to pull through the course to walk away with at least my Certificate III in Children Services. 

While studying, I learnt about different child theorists, about milestones and the different stages of development, social and emotional, cognitive, physical and creative skills that children learn. I learnt everything I needed to know about my job as I have explained above.    

I needed a job pronto therefore I started job searching. I found a relief child care worker position which I applied for and worked at for 3 months in Adelaide. I was on call 24/7 not knowing where, when or even if I would get work. But I LOVED it. I ended up working at 1 centre as they asked to have me when they phoned my boss for a worker. I would work between 24 to 75 hours a week including Saturday and Sundays. 

In 2010, my partner and I moved to Mildura where I re-enrolled in my Diploma in Children Services internally and completed it over a 12 month period. I was a full time student and I juggled 3 jobs. I was the PIC (Person in Charge) at an OSHC (Out of School Hours Care service), I was also casually employed at 2 different child care centres. 

Once I completed my Diploma in Children Services in 2011, I was offered a job straight away as a Team Leader in the nursery 1 room (6 weeks til 18 months of age) at one of the centres I was employed causally at. I worked there for nearly 12 months before I moved back to South Australia. I started my new job at the end of 2011 and I'm still there now.


Tegan on the far right graduating from the Diploma in Children Services at TAFE SA



What are the challenges that you face in a child care centre?

As Team Leader I am responsible to 'speak with' parents about any concerns that arise about their child's development if any, whether it be their language, behavior or speech. This is why it is so important to form, build and emerge relationships with each and every family member whom passes through the service.
 

Did you know that you always wanted to work with children?

The centre I currently work at now is a community based service. I thoroughly enjoy my job because it is my passion. Ever since I was about 12 years of age I said I wanted to work with children. I completed a VOC studies in year 12 in a child care centre. I volunteered my time at a child care centre, waiting to turn 18 so I could try and get a position there. 

The most rewarding thing about my job is that each day is different. It's not just the same old day in, day out. I also love the affection you get from the children, the bonds you make with them and to see that they turn to you when they are hurt, sad, shy, scared and when they learn to say your name for the first time is VERY REWARDING:) 

Hopefully you can see from this post that being a child care educator is so much more then just "babysitting" children. Qualified educators study for at least two years to learn about children's development and how to assist with and identify children with additional needs, we are kids shoulders to cry on, there to teach them routine, eating healthily, social skills and so much more!

I believe the misconception about childcare educators is that people believe that we just play all day long but they do not realise the great depth and detail that educators must follow to assist in the children's development and what we actually do behind the scenes and throughout the day.

I love my job.

Could you do it?

Tegan x